Another I hate myself rant...?

Everything about myself annoys me. I hate my voice and disdain my personality. I'm cute, as I am constantly told, but frankly can't stand anything about myself. I don't even want to wake up in the morning and face myself, and the crap I put myself and others through. I only found a small comfort in the Internet to make up for my social phobia. There are times I just wish I could end it all.Another I hate myself rant...?
How to feel good about youself





Hi. Remember me? I was the guy at your school dance or birthday party. You know, the one standing up against the wall with his arms folded trying to look like he was having a good time? I was so insecure that when I summoned enough courage to ask someone to dance, I would make sure that she was near a washroom. That way, when she rejected me I could pretend that I was just asking for directions.


If you can relate to this, you probably feel that you are shy or have low self-esteem. However, don't think of it as some terminal disease. There's nothing wrong with being shy. But it's another story if you let your shyness stop you from doing things, from meeting people, from enjoying life.





Was I shy? I don't know. When it came to talking to a pretty girl that I really liked, something inside me would take over and I would either turn into a blabbering idiot (think Jerry Lewis) sabotaging any chance of a relationship, or I would just get quiet, afraid of saying the wrong thing. When I used to say things, it would often be misunderstood or misinterpreted,.or something stupid would come out of my mouth, causing a laugh, a few raised eyebrows or whispers behind my back.. So, I just learned to shut up.. until I became a comedian. Then I had a license to say stupid things.





The following tips may not change your whole life, but I have overcome my own shyness over the years and there are a few ideas that I’d like to share with you to get you started.





1. GET OUT AND TALK TO PEOPLE. Sitting around all day playing with your computer or watching reruns of “Star Trek” are not going to provide you with a lot of opportunities. If you’re invited to go somewhere...GO! Don’t make up excuses to stay home. It’s the little things that cause a chain reaction. You may not think that going to your friends party is important, but often you will meet someone who introduces you to someone else, and then that person will eventually lead you to something that will change the course of your entire life.





2. JOIN A CLUB. Meet some people. Figure out what some of your interests , hobbies or talents are, and then hang out with people who have the same interests.





3. PERFORM IN PUBLIC The biggest turning point in my life was when I joined the school Drama Club. I discovered that I could act and make people laugh. It was a place where I could pretend to be someone else... someone even outrageous, AND in control.. Not only did I get the chance to express myself, but it was easier to relate to people. Because I was seen on stage, it gave people an opportunity or excuse to approach me first. I had always found it difficult to introduce myself or make the first move. It was much easier when they were already familiar with me. It was a starting point for me, an ice-breaker.





I eventually went on to become a professional comedian-actor and acted in hundreds of Murder Mystery dinner trains where I as an actor interacted with the audience.





Now you don’t have to become a pro, but it is important that you learn to deal with the public. Join the school drama club or local community theatre. Take up singing or even try Karaoke. How about a debate club? Anything that requires speaking or performing in front of people will do. It is important to know that you don’t even have to be good at it. Just DO IT! TRY IT! You’ll get better at it as time goes on and your confidence will soar. (By the way, did you know that Robert DeNiro is very shy?)





4. TALK ABOUT THEIR FAVORITE SUBJECT -- THEMSELVES! Sometimes talking to someone new can be very uncomfortable. We’re worried that they won’t find us interesting, that they won’t like us, that we’re not good enough for them. We’re so busy worried about what the other person is thinking about us that we don’t even hear what they’re saying.





Do you want them to like you? Keep them busy talking about themselves. Ask them questions about what they do, about what their interests are. Eventually they’ll start asking you about yourself. Give them honest answers (don’t try to impress them) and then go right back to talking about them again. They’ll go away thinking “What a great person”. Because you’ve shown an unselfish genuine interest in them, how can they find you boring and not like you?





5. SAY IT WITH COMMITMENT. If you have an opinion, an idea, or a belief, express it with 100% commitment. Not everyone is going to agree with you but you do have the right to say what’s on your mind. Politicians can’t make everyone happy but they know this much: If you say something with uncertainty and no one agrees with you they'll all “jump on you” and say you're wrong. However, if you say it with all your heart and commitment and no one agrees with you, they'll just call you controversial -- but they'll respect what you have to say.





6. STOP TRYING TO BE PERFECT. Why is it that so many people think that being perfect is the way to go? Often, people who are shy or have low self-esteem feel the need to be perfect just to break even with the rest of the world. They think they have to be twice as good to be any good. You don't! You just have to be yourself.





7. BE YOUR OWN BEST FRIEND Do you put yourself down? Do you call yourself names in your own head? Stop it immediately! Give yourself a break. If you don't like yourself, how do you expect anyone else to?





Remember, overcoming shyness is a gradual process and often not so easy, If you want to learn how to swim, you know that you're going to have to get a little wet! But once you're in the water, you'll never want to come out.Another I hate myself rant...?
I think you should talk to someone professional and not expect to answers here
Instead of looking for things that you hate about yourself, try and think positive, look for things that you like about yourself, dont wake up thinking, eww im ugly, or i hate myself, try and say, im beautiful, say it over, and over, because you are and deep down you know it, and everyone around you knows it too.
what age are you? if you are quite young, you wont feel like this forever, trust me. as you get older, you learn to love, or at least like the little things about yourself. dont end it all. life can be good, and bad, but your here for a good time, let it happen, dont waste it. i no its easier said than done but try and set little goals for urself. everyone is different and thats one of the most fantastic things about being human, the diversity. dont be afraid to be yourself because people will see that and accept that.
Are you 15-18? ?Because I felt the same at your age, it's normal, people told me the same things, still I hated myself (I still do to tell the truth), but I understood that it's impossible to be happy, because we always want more and more, and we're never happy with our results. I hope you will learn to accept your flaws, because no one's perfect.
Ebony,





The best way to get out of this depression is to DO something for somebody else. Stop thinking about yourself. It isn't difficult to find someone who really needs your help.





Call the nearest food bank and volunteer to do whatever they need done to help their people out. Once you are busy doing something worthwhile for others, you will begin to realize that you are a worthwhile person and you will begin to respect and like yourself. God Bless You %26gt;%26lt;%26gt;♥%26lt;%26gt;%26lt;