Another rant. lol?

How come guys are totally nice when you first meet them but than they turn into complete jackass? I meet this one guy and he was totally sweet...we were good friends and he was nice but once he got around his one friend he was a complete A$$hole. I don't get that at all.Another rant. lol?
it goes both ways. seen it in females too.Another rant. lol?
i know what u mean..they gotta act *cool* round their friends which means not being sweet...i guess thats not very manly





if he cant be nice to you ALL the time then he's not the one so just remember There are plenty of fish in the sea.!!
i know how u feel....they cant show anyone else but u that their sweet and caring so when they get around thier friends they become a$$holes
I guess you're attracted to immature guys.
dr jeklye and mr hyde


men play jerk games


as do some women


but i know what u mean
Some guys do this yes I know. I am sure you may find different reasons for this behaviour as everyone pretty much acts a little different for different reasons. I can assure you not everyone is like this. Some people are great one on one but around others they think they have to be the center of attention or being a badass which is hoglatin sorta for jerk. some people have this misconseption that in order to make themselves shine they have to splash mud on those that already shine.


Being a female you have the ability to semi control your surroundings. meaning you can decide to end it and its over or decide to forget it and your still where you were or even slap a little ice on it and cool things off. I suggest icing it. and if your not sure what I mean is you can say look I like you a lot but when your around other people you can be a real jerk and i know this is not the real you so please see this is bothering me because I really would hate for something like this change how we feel. after you make your speech you make sure you keep him idle in the relationship until he behaves himself.


a word of warning some guys will not like this and will break things off but if you think about it why would you want someone who has to behave like this to keep him. so really your in a win win situation.


best of luck.